(ladies you had your turn in a previous blog~lol)

I was and still am quite hesitant in writing this only because of being misunderstood. But hey, such is my life. Lol.

Let’s chat Bruh.

In my single journey, I have been able to watch a lot of men interact with women and its been a sight to see. Break out the movie popcorn and enjoy the show. Lol. Men who truly want to be loved and appreciated seem to attract some off the wall women. (sometimes, not all the time) I believe this is because of their unwillingness to wait. Oh my Lord, forgive me, I just cussed. Bruh, it seems like waiting is a serious problem in the singles world because people don’t like to wait for anything. I truly believe if men would take some time to watch a women’s character traits and not her inherited ones, it could save them a lot of heartache and confusion.

Let me give you a lil help….

(the eBook title Bruh, Listen up, A single mans guide on dating will be out in 2019 on Amazon)

If she needs to be with you as opposed to wanting to be with you..KEEP IT MOVIN

If she is so wrapped up in what you can do for her life as opposed to becoming a better person to enhance the lives of others….KEEP IT MOVIN

If she is jealous hearted and can’t trust you…KEEP IT MOVIN

If she has children and their wellbeing doesn’t come before her satisfaction…. KEEP IT MOVIN

I know men don’t normally express how they feel and all that jazz but if YOU find a woman who is content in her own skin…BRUH!!! Pray, hear God, and if God gives you the go ahead…BY ALL MEANS PURSUE!! A woman who wants to be in your life won’t pursue you, she’s a lady and knows how to wait on a good man.

Be patient Bruh!

Get you together!

Take some time to let God clean out YOUR JUNK! Trust and believe God wants you to have His absolute best and any thing worth having, is worth waiting and working for.

Bruh are you worth the wait? If so, she’ll be waiting on you to show up.

Much love,

Beautiful Black Cat



I absolutely love putting it in writing! When I write I release a part of me that was hidden from the world. For years I would only write to help me navigate through this thing called life, however, writing has become my closest friend. I am a self-published author with a desire to help people know there is always HOPE. Hope for a better tomorrow, hope to live another day, and HOPE TO KNOW LIFE DOES GET BETTER. To my readers, I say "Live FREE and Die WELL" (Quote from the Rock in the movie Scorpion King~lol). Hope is always found in letting go.

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