Can you handle No?

There are dreams and aspirations that we are seeking in life to make us feel great but what if you couldn’t attain them. What if life told you no? How would you receive that commentary? Would you accept it? Would you wallow in self pity?

Over the years that has happened to me on numerous occasions. I wanted a certain job and BOOM, I didn’t get it. NO! I desired to relocate and start fresh in a new city. NO! I wanted to be with a certain someone and enjoy wedded bliss. NO! For every NO in my life, I learned a lesson. I learned how to be patient. I learned more about myself. I learned contentment. Having to face NO in situations is really not that bad folks(trust me I had to grow up and learn that). When you are able to step back and understand why you’re facing a NO, life will be so much richer. No isn’t a bad thing, it could be helping you avoid heartache or just allowing you to grow up just a little bit more.

Much love,

Beautiful Black Cat

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I absolutely love putting it in writing! When I write I release a part of me that was hidden from the world. For years I would only write to help me navigate through this thing called life, however, writing has become my closest friend. I am a self-published author with a desire to help people know there is always HOPE. Hope for a better tomorrow, hope to live another day, and HOPE TO KNOW LIFE DOES GET BETTER. To my readers, I say "Live FREE and Die WELL" (Quote from the Rock in the movie Scorpion King~lol). Hope is always found in letting go.

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